Attention to peer bullying: Warnings and solution suggestions from a psychologist

Stating that peer bullying among students following the start of the school year can negatively affect children's psychological health, Acıbadem Kent Hospital Specialist Clinical Psychologist Tutku Damla Topaloğlu noted that bullying can manifest in various forms, including physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, and cyber. Describing bullying as "continuous and harmful behaviors where there is an imbalance of power," Topaloğlu pointed out that such behaviors can lead to school phobia in children's educational lives.

SIGNS AND EFFECTS OF BULLYING

Topaloğlu emphasized that students exposed to bullying experience increased anxiety levels, and that this situation brings about feelings of helplessness or worthlessness. "Students are generally hesitant to report this situation to their families or teachers. For this reason, it is very important for families to listen to their children and help them express their feelings," he stated.

Stating that students subjected to bullying may experience issues such as a decline in academic performance, concentration problems, and even school refusal, Topaloğlu pointed out that psychosomatic symptoms can also develop. These symptoms include nausea, headaches, abdominal pain, and skin conditions.

RECOMMENDATIONS FOR FAMILIES

Providing guidance on how parents should act when their child is subjected to peer bullying, Topaloğlu listed the following:

• Listen to understand the child's feelings.
• Encourage them to express their emotions.
• Avoid critical or judgmental statements.
• State that the situation can be shared with teachers.
• Discuss solutions together.
• Seek professional support if necessary.

RECOMMENDATIONS FOR EDUCATORS

Topaloğlu also offered important recommendations for educators:

• He emphasized that bullying should be recognized as a serious problem.
• He stated that educators should be provided with training on this subject.
• He recommended that all students be provided with training on peer bullying and its consequences.
• He expressed that clear boundaries against bullying must be set and that these boundaries must be applied consistently.

Topaloğlu also noted that raising awareness among families is of great importance in the fight against peer bullying.