As the harassment disclosures that have shaken social media in recent days and involved many famous names from the art community continue to dominate the agenda, the famous singer Kalben shared a post in which she spoke about her own experiences.
Kalben used the following expressions:
"In recent days, so much information has been pouring in on me about the same subject, about different people; I am reading about experiences similar to my own, and I am trying to make sense of experiences that I could not make sense of before. Thinking, 'Oh, this one was like that too.'
I feel very tired, mentally, physically, and I am trying to express this emotionally. I get angry, I get very angry. Then I say to myself, now you are going to say something in anger, you are going to do something in anger, and you will be that woman who gets angry. In a system that does everything to make you angry, when you do get angry, you will be the one in the wrong. A system that sets criminals free will never set you free.
People who can name the people who harm them are displaying such a powerful behavior that I still cannot do it. Just a moment ago, while I was with someone I value, I saw a person who had behaved by crossing my boundaries, leaving me with a sense of discomfort and disgust. Should I go and tell them this? I don't know what kind of answer I will get from them. I feel very locked up. I don't know, I still don't know, for example. That is why, please let us listen to the people who can achieve such a difficult thing, let us hear them out. Let us take a look at the names they mention. Let us look at the names first, I think we can do this. We can listen to women first, we can do this at least once."
News Source: 12punto