How should the news of a death be broken to a child? What should be done to ensure children are not negatively affected in a home where mourning is taking place? One of the most challenging situations for an adult is dealing with such events. Specialist Clinical Psychologist Aybeniz Yıldırım summarized what needs to be done in 4 points:
- This conversation requires sensitivity and care. A simple and understandable language should be chosen according to the child's age. Young children may have difficulty understanding abstract concepts like 'death.' Therefore, concrete expressions should be preferred.
- Instead of phrases like 'sleeping' or 'gone,' the concept of 'death' should be explained... Trying to deceive children or using vague expressions can cause confusion. The term 'died' is an accurate and simple explanation.
- It is necessary to answer questions patiently, in an age-appropriate manner, and honestly. After the news of the passing is delivered, help should be provided for children to establish a balance in their lives. Continuing their normal activities, such as going to school or playing with their friends, can provide them with comfort.
- You can share your sadness and emotional reactions. This shows the child that emotional expression is natural. However, care should be taken so that these emotions do not overwhelm the child.
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